Changing Your Name: During or After Divorce

Last Updated: March 26, 2025.

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Learn about name change procedures, court approval, filing fees, and updating legal documents with step-by-step instructions for restoring a maiden name or adopting a new one.

One way to reclaim your identity and move forward after divorce is by restoring your pre-marriage name. Whether you want to restore a maiden name, revert to a previous name, or adopt a completely new one, there are specific legal steps to follow. This guide provides a comprehensive overview of the process, including legal requirements, documentation, and potential challenges.

Restoring Your Maiden Name During Divorce Proceedings

Many jurisdictions allow individuals to request the restoration of their maiden name as part of the divorce process. This request is typically included in the initial divorce petition or response and must be approved by the court in the final divorce decree. If granted, this provision only allows for the return to a prior legal name and does not permit adopting a completely new name without additional legal steps. Rules can vary by state.

Steps to Restore Your Maiden Name During Divorce:

1. Include the Name Change Request in Your Divorce Petition or Complaint: When filing for divorce, there should be a place on the petition or response to request to restore your maiden or former name. If you are the respondent, you may need to file a separate motion or request to include this change.
2. Get Court Approval: The judge must formally accept the name change request and include it in the final divorce decree.
3. Obtain Certified Copies of the Divorce Decree: Certified copies of the final decree are required before you can update things like personal records and IDs.
4. Notify Government Agencies and Institutions: Once you have a certified copy of your decree, you should promptly update your name with entities including:
   • Social Security Administration (SSA) to update your Social Security card.
   • Department of Motor Vehicles (DMV) to update your driver’s license or state ID.
   • Banks, credit card companies, and financial institutions.
   • Employers and payroll departments.
   • Passport office for international travel documentation.
   • Insurance providers, utility companies, and other service providers.

Legal Name Change After Divorce

If you did not request a name change during your divorce or decide you want a completely different name after your divorce has been finalized, you will need to follow a separate legal name change process. 

Most courts require filing a formal petition, undergoing a background check, and obtaining a court order to finalize the name change. The process may vary depending on where you live.

Steps for a Legal Name Change After Divorce:

1. File a Petition for Name Change: Submit a petition to your county court. This document includes your personal details, the requested new name, and a reason for the name change.
2. Pay Filing Fees: Most courts require a filing fee, which ranges from as low as $25 to as high as $450. Fee waivers may be available based on financial hardship.
3. Complete a Background Check (if required): Some jurisdictions require fingerprinting and background checks to ensure the name change is not being pursued for fraudulent purposes, such as avoiding debts or criminal history.
4. Publish a Notice of Name Change (if required): Sometimes a legal name change must be published in a newspaper or other public forum as a legal notice. This ensures transparency and allows objections to be filed if necessary.
5. Attend a Court Hearing: The court may require you to appear before a judge to confirm your request. If there are no objections or legal issues, the judge will approve the request and issue an official court order granting the name change.
6. Obtain Certified Copies of the Court Order: Once approved, request multiple certified copies of the court order to update all legal and personal records.
7. Update Identification and Records: Use the certified court order to change your name on all official documents, including:
   • Social Security card (update with SSA)
   • Driver’s license or state ID (update with DMV)
   • Passport (update with the U.S. State Department or equivalent agency in your country)
   • Bank accounts, credit cards, and loan documents
   • Employment records and professional licenses
   • Health insurance, auto insurance, and other policies
   • Utility bills, leases, and property records

Changing Your Name During Divorce as a Non-U.S. Citizen

If you are not a U.S. citizen, changing your name during or after divorce may require additional legal steps depending on your immigration status and country of origin.

It's possible to do a name change while going through immigration processes; however, you should have copies of your name change documentation in hand and ready to submit to USCIS, in case the reviewing immigration officer gets confused about a petitioner or beneficiary's identity. If an immigrant or their spouse can't prove who they say they are with the documents to back their name change up, that could cause delays and will likely cause them to receive a request for evidence (RFE).

Immigration Documentation Updates

If you are a visa holder or lawful permanent resident (green card holder), you must update your name with the U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS) using the appropriate form (e.g., Form I-90 for green card updates).

If you are in the process of naturalization, you may be able to request a name change as part of your citizenship application.

Passport and National ID

You may need to update your name on your home country’s passport and other national identification documents through the respective embassy or consulate. Some countries may have specific rules about recognizing name changes made abroad, requiring additional legal steps.

Work and Visa Sponsorship Considerations

If you are on a work visa, notify your employer and update records with the U.S. Department of Labor or other applicable agencies. Sponsored visas may require notification to the petitioner (e.g., a spouse or employer sponsoring your visa).

International Travel Restrictions

Ensure your travel documents match your updated name to avoid complications at border controls. If you have dual citizenship, you may need to update both sets of documentation to ensure consistency when traveling.

Legal Recognition in Your Home Country

Some countries require a separate legal process to recognize a name change made in the U.S. Consult your home country’s embassy or consulate to determine the necessary steps.

Changing a Child’s Name After Divorce

A parent’s name change does not automatically extend to their children. If you want to change a child’s last name after a divorce, you must go through a separate legal process. Courts generally prioritize the best interests of the child and require consent from both parents, unless there are extenuating circumstances such as parental abandonment or safety concerns.

Steps to Change a Child’s Name:

1. File a Petition: Submit a formal request to the court in the county where the child resides. The petition must include the reason for the name change and details about both parents.
2. Notify the Other Parent: Most jurisdictions require that the non-petitioning parent be formally notified. If the other parent does not consent, they may have the right to contest the name change in court.
3. Attend a Court Hearing (if required): Some courts require a hearing, where the judge evaluates whether the name change is in the child’s best interests.
4. Obtain a Court Order: If approved, the court will issue a legal order granting the name change.
5. Update Official Records: Once the name change is granted, you must update the child's records, including:
   • Birth certificate (through the vital records office)
   • Social Security Administration (to update the Social Security card)
   • School and medical records
   • Passport and immigration documents (if applicable)

Considerations for Children with Immigration Status:

• Visa and Green Card Holders: If the child has a visa or green card, the name change must be updated with U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS). This often requires submitting the court order along with Form I-90 (for green card holders) or a visa amendment request.
• Dual Citizenship: If the child holds citizenship in another country, you may need to update their foreign passport and records through the appropriate embassy or consulate.
• Naturalization Applicants: If a child is in the process of applying for U.S. citizenship, a legal name change must be documented in all immigration filings to ensure consistency.

Additional Considerations for Name Changes

If you are changing your own or your child’s name, here are some things to keep in mind.

Legal and Financial Implications

Changing your name can have implications for financial accounts, property ownership, tax filings, and legal documents. Ensure all relevant institutions are notified to prevent complications.

Professional and Business Considerations

If you hold professional licenses, own a business, or have contracts under your previous name, ensure that all legal documents reflect the change to avoid issues with employment or ownership rights.

Travel and International Name Changes

As noted in the section about immigration status, if you have international ties, be aware that name changes may need to be recognized in other countries through additional legal steps, including updating visas, citizenship documents, and travel records.

Seeking Legal Assistance

While many name changes can be handled without an attorney, consulting a legal professional can provide valuable guidance, especially in cases involving minor children, name changes across different jurisdictions, or if complications arise. Legal aid services and self-help resources provided by government websites can also offer support and step-by-step instructions tailored to your location. Navigating a name change during or after divorce involves multiple steps and legal considerations. Understanding these processes in advance can help ensure a seamless transition and prevent future complications. Whether restoring a previous name or choosing a new one, following the proper legal channels will help you move forward with confidence.